Hey hey,
Man, it so hot!!! The rain has come now and still you can't breath, the cicadas are getting louder and louder. It's mad weather, like the hottest temps ever! Mm, got a wee beer to cool me down though!
Friend of mine called me yesterday, she broke up with her partner a couple of days ago.
They had been together for 9-10yrs. Her voice was full of sadness, the lapses of silence filled the air. What do you say when some one's heart is breaking... Can anything, anyone dull the pain.
I tried as best I could to say the right thing, whatever that is. I told her she would get through this and to take one day at a time. I told her what I loved about her and that she could call me anytime day or night. Even though I knew how she felt (i've been there myself, more than once) but it kinda felt wrong to say. So I listened and allowed the long moments of silence to wash over us both.
What is it with heart break that makes you feel like your going to die and that you will never ever get through it! Yet we always do, some how. Wanting so desperately to hold on and not let go, whether they were good for you or not!
Where do you get the strength from to carry on... but the days, weeks, months pass and you find the courage from somewhere deep within you to move forward.
How amazing are we!
xx caro
www.thelovecompany.co.nz
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